How Do We Become The Person We Are Looking for To Love Us As We Want

How do we fulfill the needs we have in ourself because of past injuries that call out for love and attention shown by our behaviours and interactions?

How do we meet those needs ourself? How do we be the person we are looking for in life to love us the way we want to be loved? How do we become that for ourself?

In this video Sandra Hillawi answers these questions and shares her own journey of how she came to love herself.

This video is from The Self Love Chapter of The Love Clinic Course which will start in February with a new group of love explorers. To access the guided heart healing sessions and meditations mentioned in the video and more register for the next journey of The Love Clinic Course.

If you would like to discuss this subject in person, you may book a free 45min exploratory consultation with Sandra to discuss your personal situation.

Finding the Path of Love Within: The Journey to Love in All Our Relationships

In our fast-paced world, filled with distractions and external pressures, it’s easy to lose sight of the profound journey that lies within each of us—the journey to finding love. Through my work, which you can call The Love Clinic, I embrace the transformative power of love, guiding individuals to discover and nurture this vital force within themselves and in their relationships.

It’s a journey of healing pain with Love to return to Love.

Major Obstacles to Love

It is said and widely understood that we already are Love, that Love is our natural state of being. That said, what disconnects us from that Love that we are? Why are we not feeling that reality every day?

  1. Fear and Insecurity: These twin barriers often keep us from opening our hearts fully. Whether it’s the fear of being hurt or the insecurity of not being enough, these feelings can prevent us from experiencing deep, authentic love.
  2. Past Traumas: Unresolved past traumas can cast long shadows over our current relationships. The wounds we carry from previous experiences can hinder our ability to trust and connect with others. We seek unconditional love from others and yet we cannot give it ourselves, our triggers preventing us, even if we might wish to do so.
  3. Negative Self-Perception: Our relationship with ourselves sets the tone for all other relationships. Negative self-perception can limit our capacity to give and receive love, creating a cycle of self-doubt and isolation. All are obstacles to alignment and oneness with our true self, Love.

The Benefits of Finding Love

Embarking on the journey to find love within ourselves brings profound benefits that ripple outwards into all aspects of our lives:

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Finding Meaning in Everyday Moments

Yesterday’s life circumstances were tough to handle. It was a rough day to say the least. In fact it felt like inside me there was a complete stress storm going on.

I couldn’t face my work. I didn’t have anyone to turn to, or so I thought. Nor did I feel like sitting down to do some self healing.

Then a friend and her sister called round to return something they’d borrowed. Seeing my tearful face they sat down and I emptied what was in my heavy heart to them.

They sat patiently and just listened saying only ‘its so hard this story, I’m so sorry’.

One went out and came back with chocolate and biscuits to have with a cup of tea. That was wonderful.

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How To Enter The Sanctuary of The Heart When The Other is Sensitive

The Sanctuary Of The Heart

With softness lightness and reverence may we enter

At times of crisis connecting and entering the realms of heart is not easy. There were days where I have felt like a clumsy elephant where everything I said made a stress reaction with my beloved. I backed off not knowing how to best approach one who was feeling so sensitive.

 I sat down to do a SuperMind Journey for this with a SuperMind Master friend to try to change the energy between us.

The Set Up

This was my instruction to my energy mind:

If my beloved’s heart was an entity where would it be?

I searched around and sensed it in my energy field, in front of me, very close. But it was like a oval stone of obsidian. I was shocked by this so I started to ask, what can we do to help the energy of this heart?

First came fairy dust, a light sprinkling but it didn’t have much effect.

Then I tried a laser beam of love, penetrating through the stone to the core and focusing right there, creating a little space, a hollow inside. That felt good. I continued with the laser beam of love and then added some tiny elves inside. The painted smileys on all the wall surfaces inside the cave that was growing in size. The space inside got bigger. Then I added a silver river flowing through.

Then I planted something. A tree and flowers in there and watered them with sunshine and love, and zoomed forwards in time. The cave space was larger and the tree was now a small but strong oak and the flowers were growing around it and spreading into a meadow all around.

Still there was a thick crust.

I wrapped the stone in a pink blanket but a blanker soaked in frankincense, myrrh and an alien spicy oil with mysterious penetrating and softening properties. It worked as the crust became softer.

I removed the blanket and gave space for the processes at work to continue. Eventually the crust became thinner and dissolved leaving the strong tree and garden and wide expanse of flowers.

It was beautiful, a sacred space.

I asked myself, how can I enter this space?

I realised I was an elephant, the metaphor for my energy at the moment in relation to his. I would trample on everything.

More magic was needed.

So I transformed myself. After the first transformation I was surprised to find I became a turtle, crawling around in its house and shell on its back. Then next I was a beaver working beavering about. Next I was… a frog. I was shocked again. Then I became a goldfish in the water, swimming freely and happily. Then I was a larva of some kind hardening into a chrysalis. And then finally I emerged, as a butterfly.

Only with lightness and softness and reverence could I enter The Sanctuary of The Heart and so I did. I fluttered in to rest a moment here and there until I found myself sitting with my back against the tree feeling its support strength breathing in the fragrance and beauty of the flowers around me.

And so by magic, the energy changed between us that day, becoming soft and light with reverence once more with a new awareness and understanding.

Sandra HIllawi

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Overcoming Midnight Anxiety: Mark’s Healing Journey with EMO Energy in Motion in a Messenger App Chat

Mark in Canada had been suffering from chronic anxiety and had contacted me several times by email with anxious questions and fear about trying yet another therapy that didn’t work. He was too afraid to book a session. We agreed to meet to chat further. This took place as a typed conversation using Skype chat messaging app. It was midnight for him in Canada and 8.30 am ish for me in the UK.

We used EMO Energy in Motion and that helped him feel release of his anxiety for the first time, so that he could sleep, and he agreed to have some more sessions. The whole session transcript is below, as it went on Skype chat. The client’s name has been changed for confidentiality.

EMO Energy in Motion is a healing method that works with the feelings felt in the body, using intention to influence this blocked energy to flow again, thus transforming the emotional state.

Email from the Client just after our session.

By the way I kind of finished it off after done talking to you and I feel incredible. And I DIDN’T EVEN have to figure anything out where it came from bringing of the root event etc This is soo simple and it works. I love this style feels so natural I really want to thank you I haven’t felt like this peaceful in a couple days now. I feel so good and energize I don’t even want to go to bed because I want to enjoy these moment I don’t get them often but I have a feeling I’ll be getting it a lot more. Just shows you have to basically find your answers from within and not believe people just because something works for them I have to find what works best for ME 🙂

I also am happy because I know when I’m vibrating good like this law of attraction makes my life a lot easier and GOOD things happen to me because I’M vibrating good frequencies so that’s what I’m going to get so now I feel more motivated to do stuff and it turn it GREAT because I’M vibrating it and the law of attraction works all the time so I can enjoy it 🙂

Mark

Transcript of The Anxiety Healing Session Over Chat

[00:09:18] Mark  : hello

[00:10:08] Mark  : I really am thankful for your replies and time to hear me out. I can’t take this anymore though have to find a way…

 [08:40:11] Mark  : Its 3.40 am here in Canada because I can’t sleep from my constant struggle of these negative emotions

[08:40:30] Mark  : I just got your email 🙂 thank again I really am grateful for great people like you to take time

[08:40:50] Sandra Hillawi: Hi Mark, you are welcome…and who are we if we don’t make some time when it’s needed?

[08:41:12] Mark  : so you’re willing to help me?

[08:41:22] Mark  : Like I said I’ve tried everything out there that I know of

[08:41:40] Mark  : nothing has really really helped yet just minor relief

[08:42:02] Sandra Hillawi: as I said, I’d be happy to have a mini EMO session with you, to see how you feel about it working with someone… and if you feel some positive shift, then we can talk about doing more sessions

[08:42:15] Mark  : ok sounds good to me

[08:42:40] Mark  : first though (I am a person who needs like THE answer) and you sounded unclear about how those negative emotions are just energy.

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